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Mrs. B Chintamani Vijayam – Woman of God

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Joseph,

Along with the others who have responded more publicly than I am responding now, I am saddened by this news.  I hoped you would arrive in time to see your mother before she, as you said, “entered her eternal home.”  Without knowing about your habit before reading this e-mail, I wish you had arrived soon enough that you needed to stop at the duty free shop to purchase some chocolates!

That was a sweet reflection you received from David Bennett.  I learned some new things about your mom and your dad.  But there were some things I already knew about them because I know their son.

I know it will be a blessing for everyone in your family for you and Suneetha to be there, and I pray that the God of all comfort will minister to all of you in this moment of grief, loss, and celebration (2 Corinthians 1:3-5).

Fred Green

Dear Brother Joseph,

Please accept our heartfelt condolences on the passing away of your dear mother.  May you and the rest of the family experience God’s heavenly comfort at this time of need.

We celebrate her life as God used her to touch many lives for His glory not only in India but other parts of the world.

With our prayers,

Prem James

Joseph,

I pray that you can be a comfort and be comforted.  I know it was hard to turn back around and make the journey back to India but I am sure you are thankful.  Remember to lean into the loss you feel, shed those tears and feel what you should feel.  I know when I lost my mom whom I was very close to it was always better for me to give into my emotions and it felt respectful of our relationship.  Hey and don’t give up on the chocolates….I am sure she would love it if you kept it up and enjoyed the box with your family as you remember her and all she was to you.

Big hug to you,

Steve Young

Dear Joseph,

Mary was a godly gifted woman with unique qualities to run a school with that many young ladies.

We bless you for carrying on the godly trajectory of your parents.

Luis and Doris

Dear Sister, sorry to hear sad news about Aunty Vijayam. Our profound condolences to the entire family. Her faith, cheerful face, discipline, devotion to God and commitment to church and ministry would be remembered always. May the Risen Lord comfort you all as you pass through this difficult time. We are praying for you all.

I’m saddened to hear about your mother, Joseph.  May she be in God’s gracious hand and may the Holy Spirit console and comfort you and your family, and give you His peace.

John – Davis Management, LLC

Dear Brother Joseph and Sister Suneetha,

We are very sorry to hear about Aunty .Our heartfelt condolences to you all.  We share comfort in knowing Aunty is no longer suffering but in eternity with Jesus.We pray the love and comfort of God enfolds you during this difficult time. Our thoughts  are prayers are with you and with the entire family.

With deepest sympathy,

Lavu’s Family

Joseph and Suneetha, we are so sorry for the loss of your dear mom. Aunty Mary was truly an amazing woman who served God’s people with her whole heart. I’m so grateful we knew her.

We pray God would provide you and your family comfort as you process her loss in your lives. Please let us know how we can pray specifically for your family and all at TENT. Take care.

Pam Valentin
She Is Safe

Dear Joseph and Suneetha,

I just got an email from John Samuel relating the news of your mothers physical death.  I am so thankful for our assurance of life everlasting, and I know that you must be reflecting on her great reunion with Jesus surrounded by the angelic hosts and great cloud of witnesses.  Her righteous life is such a blessed memorial as the book of Proverbs rightly says.

We just want you to know that we are praying for all of you and the TENT family during these bittersweet days.

Your mother was such a blessing to the entire Kingdom of God.  We praise God for her life of ministry and service.

God bless you all.

Phil Edwards (for the entire CCB family)

Dear Joseph,

Please accept my condolences to you, Suneetha, and your children on the very recent Homegoing of your beloved mother/grandmother. She was beloved by so very many!!!  She will never be forgotten for her enormously compassionate heart for the lost and ill-treated & disrespected women of India.

She will be greatly missed and long remembered. Just last week I had occasion to share some very sweet memories of her with my Indian daughter-in-law, Indera (a Muslim), as we looked

over the several pieces of pearl and gold jewelry Mary had gifted me with over the years.  I hope to bequeath these to my two American/Indian granddaughters, Emi and Hana.  Indera took notes in case I don’t have an opportunity to share these specific details with them.

I don’t know how or when y’all will be able to hold a memorial service for Mary in India.  My heart breaks for the millions who are suffering from the pandemic.  No doubt you and Suneetha have been hindered from visits because of the health dangers.  May the Lord strengthen you for the days ahead and bring you the kind of comfort only our loving Father can give in times like these.

In Christ’s love,  Clare

David Bunyan here.

Bujji,

Sorry to hear of the passing of your loving mother. We are praying for you and your entire family. Safe travels and all the best from all the Bunyan’s.

Dear Joseph

We are saddened to learn of your mother’s passing. Please accept our heartfelt condolences. I know that you were very close to her and this loss in many ways will be unbearable especially since you are not present here. The boys and Sophie will also miss her. We pray that God will comfort you and your family and give all the strength to carry on. Your mom has entered heaven’s gates having lived a fulfilling life on earth.

This is such a sad time for all of us. Many of my relatives have also passed away and there was no way we could visit and console them.

We will remember you in our prayers.

Bujjai we are blessed by our dearest Chintamani amma. We will miss smile and calming presence.  We loved journeying with her as she increased our faith and prayer life that miracles are real.

Dearest Joseph and Suneetha Trina and my heart hurts for you. Prayers over the last few days as you travel, mourn, and connect with family. Oh dear Lord be close to you!! Love, great abiding love.

Dear Joseph,

I am sorry to hear about your loss.  We will be praying for you and the family during these difficult times.  May the God of peace comfort you and your family with His ever present Spirit.  Blessings.

RESTING IN HIM,

Matt Castagna

Joseph

I am sorry to hear of your loss. Blessings during this time of grief and celebration.

It is with great grief i heard of the  demise of Mrs. VIJAYAM . Please accept my heartfelt condolences. A noble soul has lived a purposeful life of  meaning and  purpose that needs to be celebrated. Her blessings will continue to  guide you and the extended family.

Please accept my heartfelt condolences. May God continue to console and strengthen you and your extended family members during this time of grief. Praying.

Dear Dr.Vidya Sravanthi and Dr.Joseph,

Please accept our deepest condolences on passing away of your beloved mother, Mrs. Mary Vjayam this morning.

She was a blessed woman who lived her life well, served Him and went to meet her husband who is with Jesus, the living hope.

Praying for the Lord’s comfort and strength as you pass through this emotional crisis.

Chiranjeevi and Kamala

Joe so sorry to hear this. Sandy just told me and I literally was about to message you. She finished the race strong. She has been reunited with uncle and Jesus. Amazing life Joe. I rejoice in the opportunity to have known her and uncle. Including all the laughs we shared those times I saw her.

Bujjai, very sorry about Chintaunty. I can’t imagine how hard it is for you being so far away. I know you’re on your way to India so not calling now. Agnelo, Meghna and I send our deepest condolences. May her soul Rest In Peace.

Joseph,

I am sorry to hear that Aunty is no more with us. I thank the Lord for her life and the inspiration she provided to many young people through her deliberations and writings. May the Lord Almighty grant her Peace .

Hi Brother Joseph,

No matter how we mentally rubic cube and prepare ourselves, the final moment of a parent’s departure spilts the atom and leaves a huge crater. And in this moment, I discovered that deep grief and deep relief are two sides of the same coin the Maker tossed. My deepest condolences, my brother. She is in the presence of her Creator. May the Lord comfort all those who mourn. Amen

Very sorry to know Joseph, about mom’s demise. Praise God for her purposeful life and contributions. It is amazing how she could bring up the children in the fear of the Lord and now you are all witnesses for the Lord. One family touched, generations touched. Praise be to God.

Sorry to learn of your Mom’s departure.

God is good. He was with her till her last breath. And will be with you till your last too. That is why His name is Immanuel! All glory to Him!  Amen

Madam, Vijayam uncle and aunty left a spiritual legacy on behalf of my siblings( my Dad Late . Benjamin) have many memories. We should eagerly pass on a spiritual legacy to our next generation. Vijayam aunty was our teacher in Weseley Girls High school way back in  60s.

May God comfort the bereaved family.

Good morning, sorry to hear the sad news of aunty’s sudden demise. Our heartfelt condolences to you and all the bereaved family members. We pray that God may comfort and give you the strength in this time of grief and sorrow. May aunty’s soul rest in eternal peace.

Hi Joseph.

Thoughts and prayers with you and the family as you experience all the seasons of life Ecclesiastes speaks of.  The Psalms also remind us weeping lasts for the night but joy comes in the morning.

Brother Joseph. We are sorry to hear that your mother went home to be with the LORD. Our condolences. We are praying for God’s comfort for you and all family members

Sad to hear about the demise of your mother heartfelt condolences pray god to give you strength to bear the loss may her soul rest in peace.

Dear Joseph,

My heart and my prayers are with you and Suneetha as you return to Hyderabad, and share precious memories with your family and ministry colleagues regarding your dear mother, Mary, who has now joined your father, Dr. B.E. Vijayam, in the presence of Jesus. I cherish memories of visits and conversations with them there at the TENT campus, and my mind is flooded with all the men and women whose lives have been impacted through the ministries they launched and the people they trained over all these decades. May the Lord give you his peace. And as he speaks his words to your heart, may he give you words to share with others who are gathered with you.

Praying with you,

Dave Bennett

Dearest Joseph,

We are sad to hear of the passing of your dear mother. Nobody could ever fill the void left in your heart. Nobody could ever take the place of such a blessed person. May you find comfort in your many precious memories of the life you shared with this very very special person.

Our deepest and warmest wishes go out to you and your family,

Ernie and Sandy

Brother,

Praying for you and the family as you go through this period of grief. May His Grace be sufficient to you all.

Dear Joseph,

I’m sorry to hear about your mom. She has been welcomed by our Savior with “Well done, good and faithful servant!”

Your family will be in my prayers.

We have also been praying for you and Suneetha as you recover.

Kamesh Sankaran

Chintamani Vijayam Aunty, wife of Professor, late Dr. Vijayam is  known for her simplicity, humility and compassion. Praise God for her blessed life!

Our family’s  deep condolences to the bereaved family.

May  the Lord of all comfort strenthen and comfort the bereaved family members.

Hello, Sravanthi:

We are sorry to know of Aunty’s passing. At this difficult moment, when all your family members grieve, please know that we uphold you in our prayers. We thank God for the tremendous work done by Aunty, especially as an educator. Her life has been a blessing to many.

Wishing you the peace that comes through our faith in Christ.

Take care

Dear Lajwanti, Very sad to hear about the demise of Mrs.Vijayam.She was my Principal, I was privileged and blessed to serve under her in the Girls’school.She was a God fearing, loving, caring, humble person.She always showed motherly love towards me.May the Lord comfort all your families during this time of sorrow and grief . Praying for you all.

Our heartfelt condolences.

I see her as my mentor. Just because of her I came to Girls’ School. First I was in Boys, when Simpson came, seeing my maths background Madam brought me to Girls School. What I am today is just because of her.

Thank God for her wonderful life.

Join you all in your grief. Assure you of our prayers.

Dear Sir, Just came to know from my father the news and I am very sorry to hear that we have lost loved one, Aunty. It is never easy lose a loved one, and it is especially difficult to lose a mother. My heart is broken with the news and I am very sorry to hear. Our thoughts are with you.

Thank you so much Jayanthi for a lovely Biography of Aunty. Of course, if we want write more about her, it will take many more pages, for what she was. 

I vividly remember that there was never a murmur or impatience in her for any guest who comes to stay in her house. She was very compassionate for disabled and helpless persons. That is why she engaged a domestic helper named Ayah for a long time, who was both deaf and dumb.

She helped some helpless and some who lost apatite to live, by keeping them in her house and settled them, even by getting them married off. She had a penchant will to welcome all the servants of God in to her house, request them to pray and send them off after giving them few hundreds of rupees. She helped many relatives, who were in financial needs. She used to send money to them on a regular basis. 

When her brothers, nephews and nieces came to Hyderabad city to do college studies, she kept them all in her house and looked after them as her own children. They will never ever forget aunty and uncle’s unfathomable love.

Chinta Aunty was always beside Vijayam uncle; supporting him in all the activities, he was involved. Uncle could head so many religious and rural development organizations, as aunty would take care of the children and home activities. I do not think she ever objected or murmured for several of his absence from home.

From the time they started TENT Ministries, we saw its phenomenal growth as the years went by. We all saw how Chinta aunty played a vital role in this vision, to spread the Gospel to the unreached. Aunty was the pioneer in initiating IWILL ministry in the Carmel Campus. The Daily Morning Devotion book written by her is diligently read and meditated on by many children of God.

I can keep writing many of her virtues of I can go on. She was a blessed woman and so our dear Lord gave her a peaceful death in her sleep. We will always miss her physical presence, her lovely smile and her love for all of us. At this difficult time, the assurance that we all will meet her and all our dear ones again in the presence of our Lord, gives us a bit of relief. John 14:2-3.

Heartfelt condolences to the family Jayanthaunyy!! You are all in our prayers. Granny will be missed terribly!! Will never forget the times we spent with her and all of you most summers growing up. You all have our love!!!

Really we brothers proudly can say she is our beloved Akka  She is Legend and model to all  May soul rest in peace

My deepest condolences for the family!! I was lucky to study in one of the prestigious school where she served as the principal. 

Great and inspirational leader and a charismatic woman.

Glory to God and thanks to God for blessed life of Chinta atta. Wonderful witness

 

My deepest condolences for the family !! I was fortunate to be a EU student in the late 70s.  Every week Danita used to give an update about the Bible studies participated by you at the OU Campus.   I marvelled at the support rendered behind the scene by your Mom and Dad.  Wanted to share their contribution at the EU Silver jubilee by your parents but had no opportunity to do so.   May God bless the legacy left by Aunty and also Vijayam Uncle.

Great and inspirational leader and a Super woman par excellence.

That is such an awesome tribute, Jayanthanty. Granny was such a great embodiment of love. Such a great witness to Christ. We will miss her dearly. Praying for God’s peace to surround you and comfort you at this time.

Sorry for your loss!! Our deepest condolences to you all!! May God’s love, peace and comfort be with you all!! Great tribute! We thank God for dear aunty’s life!! Her life is an inspiration to many!! Our prayers are with you all!!

Ammamma was a beautiful person with an amazing heart. She will be forever fondly remembered. We last met her along with Vijayam Thatha in 2015 right before my father passed away. It was an evening of love, intellectual conversations and ended with a beautiful prayer our heartfelt Condolences to all the bereaved family members

This is so sad. Mrs Vijayam was so loving and kind. She will always remain in our hearts. 

 

Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.

We love you and miss you a lot aunty. Please accept our condolences.

We bring our heartfelt condolences… Your mother was the mother everyone would like to have. 

We still can’t believe it. Feel so sorry for your loss. Your mother was a great woman and we want you to know that we loved her as much as we love you.

Just don’t know what to say. We believe that these moments must be with no words. Just feelings of love. Sorry for the great loss.

We pray that our God almighty give you the needed strength and courage to overcome these difficult times 

Praying for you Sir

A great humble couple. Lots to learn such dedicated. We still follow the daily reading of her writings please accept our condolences.

She wasa lovely, kind-hearted lady. We enjoyed being with her whenever we met her along with your father. We will miss her. Accept our heartfelt condolences on behalf of Benjamin family. Priscilla my eldest remember s her as a lovely person

Very very sad Munni , we could not attend her funeral , 

Mummy was my first Principal, very beautiful loving sweet lady, lady of all virtues, students and staff were very much fond of her, she led very blessed life, 

May her soul Rest In Peace in the Holy presence of our Heavenly Father and loving Uncle.

Seen the sad news from our church members. Our deep condolences and prayers at this time of death of my PG professor’s wife & your loving mom/ grandma/ mother- in -law. She was a great host & learned teacher in Maths/ Principal ,May her soul rest in peace.

With a heavy heart I’m posting this! 

Mrs Vijayam was the principal of St George’s Grammar School, Abids, Hyderabad. I had the privilege of serving the School during her tenure! 

A great leader, visionary, loving, affectionate, and a Godly woman of God! Will miss you Ma’am!

Maam  ur caring heart and loving nature always be remembered. A wonderful person maam We Always remember u THE KINDEST PRINCIPAL..may maam soul rest in peace.. May the Almighty God console the family in this tough time..

Such a heart breaking news. I still remember vividly how she conducted our assembly in the morning.

Did hear Esther, thank you for the link.. missed the time.  She was a humble, sweet, God-fearing Aunty!  Remember fondly all the family get togethers we had with the Vijayams

So sad to hear about Aunty Vijayam passing away….she was a sweet calm, loving person. She was also my Maths tuition teacher when I was in school, and also a lecturer at Bharat Bible College in the 70’s. Our deep condolences to her children n grandchildren.

Feel very sad to hear of Mrs. Vijayam, known the family from my childhood, Christ Church, Lallaguda has lost Precious, Supporting, Loving family. May her soul RIP, and may God comfort the bereaved family.

Deepest Condolences Brother Joseph,
She was a wonderful woman of God, We always used to enjoy the fellowship of Vijayam uncle and Chintamani Aunty, We celebrate her life and ministry.
We keep praying for you Regards

Thank you all, the memorial brought back lot of memories of aunty and uncle. The service was very solemn and deserving of a life well served. RIP aunty and your legacy will go on.

You had a very learned lady as your mom. She performed so many roles in her life. It wasn’t just her career. Very inspiring. And I would take a point from her with regard to disciplining children. I really liked the video. Yes and she truly fitted the description in Prov 31. We modern ladies can’t do half of what she did with the grace n humility she had.

Hello Joe, I saw Sunitha’s message about aunty’s passing just now.. It’s shocking to see that the ‘Gold standard’ folks are slipping on!! It’s shocking n sad for me though to hear about this, especially since we spoke last, you said she’s doing well as w/ all the fond expectations you had about Joshua’s wedding celebrations! Please accept our sincere condolences!! Will pray for God’s comfort for you all during this time –

I fondly remember how she used to speak of my mom n her, being alumni of Bishop Azariah School n WCC n about how well she felt about her. Personally, I’ll terribly miss your Dad n Mom n will always remember them for the unwavering stand of their faith n convictions! Nevertheless, I believe they are both at a better place now, probably happily rejoicing in God’s presence along w/ my parents..

My deepest condolences for the family !! I was fortunate to be a EU student in the late 70s. Every week during our home EU Bible study at residence of Mr SA Daniel, his daughter Danita Daniel, used to give an update about the Bible studies participated by Mrs Vyjayanthi as a student at the OU Campus. I marvelled at the support rendered behind the scene by your Mom and Dad. Wanted to share their contribution at the EU Silver jubilee by your parents but had no opportunity to do so. May God bless the legacy left by Aunty and also Vijayam Uncle. Mrs Chintamani Vijayam is Indeed a Great and inspirational leader and a Super woman par excellence.

Dear Joseph
My association with Dr Vijayam’s family dates back to the 1970s whilst I was at engg college. This is through the students movement called Evangelical Union which I was part of. The whole of Dr Vijayam’s family was involved in some way or the other with the Evangelical union. Later recently Dr Vijayam also confirmed that he was associated with Dr Enoch, founder of Evangelical Union, when he was a student at the Andhra university. I am saying this because Dr Vijayam became a role model for me to emulate.

There are briefly 3 aspects I admire about Dr Vijayam. His love for students ministry amongst many others, I have already mentioned.

Secondly his love for others. In this aspect
I would recall King David’s friendship with his friend Jonathan. In Jonathan’s passing away he says , ” You adorn others with finest gold “. Your love for me was greater than the love of Women. His selfless love for others is remarkable.

Thirdly his devotion to God as demonstrated through the tent ministry.